Wendy Hagen

Christian Women's Speaker

Let's face it, Wendy does not have time to be traveling around the world speaking all the time. Her kids need her at home so they can spill things for her to clean up, wake her up early in the morning, beg her for unneeded bandaids, referee their fights, and wipe their booties. They also need her hugs, kisses, head scratches, fashion advice, and her dirty minivan. So if you want to have Wendy come speak at your MOPS, conference or women's retreat book her now. (Note: Wendy lives in the San Francisco Bay Area so a church/Mom's group outside of her area would need to pay Wendy's travel expenses in addition to her speaking fee.)

"Wendy spoke out our church's Women's Christmas Dessert. She was warm and funny and authentic. She made us laugh and at the same time was able to help everyone understand how God loves each of us personally. Wendy's presentation of the gospel was one of the best I've ever heard. It was shared with clarity and conviction. We had the best response to the Gospel we have ever had during our Christmas Dessert. Six women gave their lives to Christ and I have heard from several other hostesses that women who were there that night have since given their hearts to the Lord. Truly, the Holy Spirit worked through Wendy that evening! We would have her back anytime!" Pam Dvorak, Women's Ministry Director at Sunridge Community Church in Temecula, CA

"Just finished tallying the evaluations last night. Wendy was by far our girls' favorite speaker for the year. Thanks Wendy, for coming to us. You cracked our ladies up and spoke God's truth so well." MOPS Coordinator at Mariner's Church in Irvine, CA

"What a blessing you were to be able to touch so many women today, as I think your topic was spot on with the issues and challenges that face us mothers right here and now. Your candid approach makes us all feel not so alone in the struggles we face with making time for ourselves, our bodies, our marriages, and our children. Thanks again for your dynamic talk this morning. It was certainly the highlight of my last three years here at MOPS." MOPS Coordinator at Walnut Creek Presbyterian Church

"I've been doing this here for six years and you were the best speaker we've ever had." Mentor Mom, Calvary Community Church, Westlake Village, CA

"Wendy, thanks for your humility, and your humor! I LOVE listening to you about motherhood. Your godly wisdom encourages me more than any other speaker. Thanks for following God's calling to share your journey in motherhood with all of us. You continually remind me that God is always with me as a TDM . . . leading me, loving me, and giving me lost of grace. I am proud to be a TDM :) Thanks for your continual encouragement through you book, your blog and your messages!" Board Member, Mothers Together at CPC in Danville, CA

Wendy's Speaking Topics Include:

The Greatest Love Story (new talk)

There are a lot of sweet love stories out there, but when you get behind the scenes they are far from perfect. The good news is that there is a great love story out there. There is a God who loves us unconditionally. Regardless of our past, of our mistakes . . . or if we love him back. There is a God who loves us specifically. Not just as a face in the crowd, not simply as one of his bazillion children . . . he cares about what is going on in our lives. Wendy outlines this unconditional love as presented in the Bible and uses testimony from her own life to demonstrate how God loves us specifically as individuals.

Marriage Matters (new talk)

Falling in love can be easy, but actively loving your spouse on a daily basis is often difficult. Because sometimes they say you have fat arms when you're pregnant, give you a vacuum cleaner for your anniversary for your 5-year anniversary, and chew hot tamales in your ear when you are in the midst of your intense, epidural free labor. And yet, having a healthy marriage matters -- to God, to your children, and to your emotional well-being. Wendy will share stories from her own 13 year+ marriage including the two-year period when she did not like her husband, and things she has learned to help keep the marriage together, growing, and thriving. She will also draw from the Bible to challenge you in the way you love your spouse.

Trusting God with the Hard Stuff (new talk)

Sometimes it is much easier to freak out rather than to obey and trust our Creator. Do we trust God or do we go with popular culture? Do we obey His Word or go with what our gut is telling us? Do we let our fears dictate our decisions or do we respond to what God has called us to? Wendy will challenge you to boldly trust God with the hard stuff. Speaking from personal experience and promises from Scripture, Wendy will encourage you as she shares the overwhelming blessings that come when we boldly step out in faith.

Simplicity and Contentment: Living the Un-American Dream (new talk)

Cell phones. Facebook. Foreclosures. Credit Cards. Twitter. Email. Unemployment. Fancy cars. Ipads, Itouches, Ipods, Ichats . . . Ieverything. And then those darn neighbors -- the Joneses. How can we hear God amidst the noise? How can we practice simplicity (without joining an Amish community) and find contentment in our chaotic culture? Get ready to be challenged and encouraged as Wendy talks about some spiritual disciplines that will help clear some space for God to work. This is an area that Wendy is personally always challenged in and she would like some company as she seeks to posture herself to be transformed by God instead of the culture.

Taking Care of Mom

Wendy loves being a stay-at-home mom. But sometimes she has MBDs (mental breakdown days) and wants to quit or at least take a leave of absence. Wendy has found that in order to reduce the frequency of MBDs she has got to take care of herself emotionally, physically and spiritually. And a healthy marriage matters too! Recharge with Wendy as she shares some practical tips for the exhausted mama.

Good Grief

Grief is kind of like riding a roller coaster. A roller coaster with no seat belt, blind folded, in an amusement park with no decent snacks and shady employees. A lot of ups, downs and upset stomachs. Miscarriage. Stillborn. Infertility. Loss of a child. Divorce. Death of a parent. Many of us have been there. Wendy will talk about her experience with grief and how walking through it with the great Comforter can bring about "good grief." She will also share practical ways to support someone who is in the midst of grief.

Hope

Wendy shares her story of personal tragedy when at five months pregnant she found out her firstborn had a fatal condition called "Trisomy 13." Weaved throughout her story is the faithfulness of the God of hope. Her story challenges listeners to get to know the God of hope and will inspire women to trust Him in all circumstances of life.

You Were Made for This

You were made for the motherhood. And Wendy's got biblical and modern-day proof. Motherhood is our greatest calling and our greatest ministry, but it's not all we were made for--we were made to be in a relationship with our Creator. Laugh and be inspired to be the mom and child of God has called you to be.

I Didn't Read That in any Parenting Books

From pregnancy puking to natural childbirths to the terrible threes, Wendy addresses some of the unspoken challenges of motherhood. You probably won't walk away with a lot of tips or receive an infusion of wisdom from this message, but you will certainly feel a little bit more normal. This is the kind of talk that will keep you laughing weeks later as you traverse through the unspoken "gems" of the motherhood.

Standing Firm in Crisis

How do we live up when all the circumstances of life are trying to pull us down? Whether you've lost your home in this challenging economy or been abandoned by your spouse, Wendy will encourage you to trust God with your heartache and stand firm as a child of God. You will laugh and cry as Wendy uses personal testimony and Scriptures to challenge you to think beyond your crisis.

How Does it Feel to be Perfect?

It's okay to do things well. To do our best. To give it our all. So long as our motives are right. Are you working for the Lord or the approval of men? Are you missing the joy of the moment because you are chasing the illusion of perfection? Wendy covers three areas of perfectionism that many women struggle with and then offers Biblical and practical ways (including showing a bunch of ugly photos of herself and her family) to learn to let go of perfection and embrace the process of growth. In any stage of life or season of faith.

Wendy also does weekend retreats and conferences. Contact her for more information regarding themes and topics.

Wendy's Speaking Schedule for 2012

*January and February: Team teaching and leading women's Bible study at Cornerstone Fellowship in Livermore, CA

*Thursday, March 1 & 3: MOPS at Cornerstone Fellowship in Livermore, CA

*Friday, March 3: BASS Conference in Castro Valley, CA

*Tuesday, March 20: MOPS at Crossline Church in Laguna Hills, CA

*Thursday, March 22: MOPS at Laguna Presbyterian Church in Laguna Beach, CA

*Friday, March 23: Mom Connection at Friends Church in Yorba Linda, CA

*Thursday, April 19: MOPS at Hillside Covenant in Walnut Creek, CA

*Friday & Saturday, April 20-21: Westwood Baptist Church in Olympia, WA

*Friday & Saturday, May 4-5: Prescott Pines Camp Mother/Daughter Retreat in Prescott, AZ

*Tuesday, May 8: MOPS at Redwood Chapel in Castro Valley, CA

*Thursday, May 24 & 31: MOPS at Cornerstone Fellowship in Livermore, CA

*Friday November 2: The Grove Community Church in Riverside, CA

More Testimonials about Wendy Hagen

"You were an incredible blessing to us, Wendy. Everything I heard was so very positive. You have a powerful testimony to give and it really encouraged and inspired the women. One comment that was repeated over and over was how helpful it was hear how to support one who is grieving. One of our moms wrote, "She is wise and has great Bible knowledge. She could speak on anything! I'd love to hear her talk on another topic next year!" You did an amazing job, Wendy, with a very difficult subject. I loved how you went through the highs and lows of grief and personalized them from your own experience. And the myths you shared were so helpful. One gal said that after hearing you she felt "inspired" to help a good friend now! You were so organized! Not only did you tell us how we could support, you also gave a "don't" list. It's obvious you have a gift for speaking, and for speaking God's truth into lives, and I'm very grateful you shared it with us. There's no question I'll be getting in touch with you in June to ask you for next Fall!" Mothers Together, Community Presbyterian Church, Danville, CA

Wendy, you were amazing. All our girls were ecstatic after your session. The way you share your life makes it easier to relate to the changes that need to take place in our lives. Your passion for pleasing God is catchy. Thank you for being who God made you and helping us to do the same.

Donna Patterson, The Fathers House, Vacaville, CA

Wendy is a dynamic speaker. I have heard her speak to our MOPS group as well as at Women's Bible Studies and each time she captivates the audience with her humorous way of sharing God's grace and truth. Wendy makes it so easy to relate to her because she shares from her 'real life' experiences. I would have her speak to our MOPS moms every week if I could because I think she brings a fresh and real perspective to being a Christian mother and wife. Thank you Wendy for keeping me so engaged that I wasn't even tempted to text while you talked. :)

Sheree Byington, MOPS Director, Cornerstone Fellowship, Livermore, CA

Thanks for your break-out session on "Taking Care of Mom." As you said everything we do, we model for our kids. I felt such a burden, but it gradually lifted as you recommended exercise and sleep, time with hubby, and spiritual time. I think I can do more of those things and gain some sanity. You were funny and transparent and I loved it! I really needed it. I came to the Design 4 Living Conference feeling empty and left feeling full. My husband and kids appreciate that! Carrie, mom who attended the Design 4 Living Conference

You were a blessing and a highlight of our semester! Thanks for being REAL, honet, and open. Carli, MOPS Coordinator, Grace Baptist Church, Santa Clarita, CA

What Mothers Togethers Moms said about Wendy: "Best speaker of the year!" "Come back! I really enjoyed how funny she was." "Wendy is wonderful. Thank you for all the verses. I'm looking forward to looking them up!" Mothers Together Moms from Community Presbyterian Church, Danville, CA

Our group continued to use quotes from your talk and book the entire year. Everyone loved what you had to say. I am so thankful God is using you to speak to other moms about real stuff happenings. We are all experiencing the same general stuff and most think they are all alone and can't talk about it. You were so transparent that it really allows more women to feel more comfortable with themselves. Wren Horn, MOPS Coordinator, First Christian Church, Santa Maria, CA

Wendy's Speaking Schedule for 2011

*Wednesday, January 26th at 9am: MOPS at Laguna Niguel Presbyterian Church, Laguna Niguel, CA

*Thursday, January 27th at 9am: MOPS at Coast Hills Church in Aliso Viejo, CA

*Tuesday, February 22nd at 9am: MOPS at Valley Bible Church in Pleasanton, CA

*Thursday, February 24th at 7pm: Mothers Together (A Mom's Night Out!) at Community Presbyterian Church in Danville, CA

*Monday, February 28th at 9:00am: MOPS at Centerville Presbyterian Church in Fremont, CA

*Saturday, March 12th at 11am: Light and Love Luncheon at Cornerstone Community Church in Manteca, CA

*Thursday, April 7th at 9am: MOPS at Hillside Covenant in Walnut Creek, CA

*Thursday, May 5th at 8:45am: GUM (Growing Up Mom) at Church of the Open Door in Glendora, CA

*Friday, May 6th at 9am: MOPS at Mariner's Church in Irvine, CA

*Saturday, May 7th Time TBD: Mothers and Others Luncheon at Fallbrook First Baptist Church in Fallbrook, CA

*May 20-21st: Emceeing the Design 4 Living Conference at Cornerstone Fellowship in Livermore

*May 26th: Moms Togetether at Cornerstone Fellowship, Brentwood Campus

*July 9th: Mom's Event at Cornerstone Fellowship, Brentwood Campus

*September 27th: MOPS at Valley Bible Church in Pleasanton, CA

*October 21st 9am: MOPS at Valley Springs Presbyterian Church in Roseville, CA

*November 14th at 9:15am: MOPS at Walnut Creek Presbyterian Church

*December 1st & 8th at 9:30am: MOPS at Cornerstone Fellowship in Livermore, CA

*December 2nd: Women's Christmas Dessert at Sunridge Community Church in Temecula, CA